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transzaizenaoi:sakaki yuuya leading his army of pan trans zaizen...

Thu, 21 Jun 2018 22:09:04 -0400

sakaki yuuya leading his army of pan trans zaizen aoi s into battle to fight all the homophobes and terfs in our month of june

neeeeeon: meme farm

Thu, 17 May 2018 07:45:56 -0400

neeeeeon:

meme farm

kuruisu: Wotaku ni Koi wa Muzukashii Opening - Fiction...

Thu, 17 May 2018 00:21:37 -0400

kuruisu:

Wotaku ni Koi wa Muzukashii Opening - Fiction (フィクション) by Sumika

professorvonspooky:The Ersatz Elevator + Screenshots of Despair

Thu, 17 May 2018 00:21:28 -0400

professorvonspooky:

The Ersatz Elevator + Screenshots of Despair

magician-of-the-skies:captions are hard

Thu, 17 May 2018 00:19:35 -0400

magician-of-the-skies:

captions are hard

jununy: we out here

Mon, 14 May 2018 17:38:36 -0400

jununy:

we out here

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Signs of being in an emotionally abusive relationship, and how to get help.

Tue, 24 Apr 2018 01:14:48 -0400

arianagrandes:

This cause is incredibly important to me because having gone through it with my mom, experiencing emotional abuse and trauma from an incredibly young age, throwing around the word ‘abusive’ simply because a relationship is somewhat problematic. That is not what emotional abuse is. I understand that everyone’s experience is different, but the warning sings are always incredibly similar. Sorry this is a long post but I really wanted to post something like this.

Here are some warnings that can be of use to you that I, myself have experienced and still do today:

Making you feel guilty / feeling guilty. It can be from the tiniest of things, or the most important once. Once, my mother asked me to sing with her at a funeral and after weeks of struggling with suicidal thoughts and tendencies, I just couldn’t sing at the funeral because of my current state. I proceeded to call her and the first thing I get is: how could you do this to me? how am I supposed to do this alone? You promised me, and now you’ve broken your promise. Not once did she ask me why, if I was feeling okay, if something was wrong. She didn’t even give me a chance to explain why, nor did she care. There are countless amounts of times where a similar thing has happened.

Being incredibly overprotective. Under all my childhood years, as well as my teenage years, my mother was always protective to the point where it didn’t make sense. She’d ruin my friendships when I had parties; make herself the center of attention and forget completely about it as well. Not only that, but overreacting to everything and putting me under a microscope.

Jealousy. As much as she denies it, my mother has always been jealous of my relationship with my dad, this is a fact. She always asks why I’m able to forgive him and what makes him different from her. In which I always say that he has become a better man, he’s changed so much and is in a much better place due to the fact that he’s worked for it. This also applies to me having friends outside of me and my mother’s relationship. Knowing people she didn’t know, in which she would find ways to ruin every relationship for me.

Being demanding - becoming more demanding. This is pretty much explanatory because of everything I mention I guess.

LACKING EMPATHY OR COMPASSION. Putting this in all caps because to me, this is my mother in. a. NUTSHELL. She cannot for the life of her not make a conversation about her. She cannot for the life of her even understand how I’m hungry when she isn’t. Back to the making everything about herself part though. My entire childhood living with her, I cannot remember once where we started talking about me, but ended it with “how bad don’t you think I feel” or “oh, believe me I have it so much worse”, or somehow make it seem like my feelings weren’t as important, or didn’t even matter at all to her.

Grand gestures. More like making a grand promise of doing something but never follows through with it.

Gaslighting. Making you think something bad is your fault, that they’ve done, though it’s not. Oh, where do I start with this. Let’s start about my diagnosis. As I was getting a diagnosis at around the age of 12, my mother desperately wanted me to have ADHD (like her,) so much that she actually filled out the report in response to herself. Years later (at the age of 18 - 19) I have a chance to see what people has written or filled out in my report. As I reach my mother’s page, I am completely shocked, because she has filled in something completely different than my psychiatrist, my doctor, and my teacher, who filled out the test very similar to my own. I called to ask her about this, and she proceeded to tell me that it was her view on it, and that “I had to understand that it was so difficult because she was so afraid because I was so afraid of everything,” oh and also, “because I spoke my truth,” making me feel incredibly bad about confronting her.

Undermining. Where your suggestions / conversations is dismissed unless they’re relevant or they’re to gain something from it. This has happened to me so many times that I cannot even tell you. I’ve always felt so useless and unimportant after.

Trying to turn you against your family. I cannot tell you, the amount of times, my mother, has tried, to trash talk my father to me, in order, to turn me, against him. She has made him look SO BAD. And worst of all, things took such a turn, and he was never around because we had moved, that I gradually started to believe what she was telling me. Reminding you here that I was about 11 - 12 years old at the time when this started.

Stonewalling. Something that has happened more much more as I’ve grown up. I won’t hear from her in weeks and the only excuse I get is ‘I haven’t been able to have my phone on’, or ‘I’ve been sleeping’ -.-

You can read more here. If you suspect that you are a victim of emotional abuse, the best thing I could advice you to do, is to book a session with a licensed psychiatrist. And if you know someone that are in an emotionally abusive relationship, encourage them to do the same.

scodelarioss:I came here to make the world a better place, but I...

Sat, 07 Apr 2018 17:13:41 -0400

scodelarioss:

I came here to make the world a better place, but I think I broke it.

dnadoodles: Hey guys! I think I’m gonna jump on board with the...

Wed, 04 Apr 2018 23:20:05 -0400

dnadoodles:

Hey guys! I think I’m gonna jump on board with the whole Palette Challenge thing, so feel free to send me a character or pairing from any of the things in the tags and I just might do it ;)

credit to @torddkin for the beauuutiful palettes!

nabatya: ホワイトデーゆさあお

Sun, 18 Mar 2018 17:13:57 -0400

nabatya:

ホワイトデーゆさあお

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darkxyzduelist: あーくふぁいぶろぐ (R-18 in link)

Thu, 01 Mar 2018 00:00:31 -0500

darkxyzduelist:

あーくふぁいぶろぐ

(R-18 in link)

YES, I’M SALTY AS FUCK, AND I’M GONNA BE A JACKASS, YOU’VE BEEN WARNED

Sun, 18 Feb 2018 23:11:59 -0500

marshmallow-the-vampire-slayer:

So tonight, I came on tumblr to find out someone had made a Spike post consisting of literally all gifs made by me. As usual, I always try to contact the reposter and ask them to either remove the content or credit my blog (as they should’ve done in the first place, but that’s beside the point…) I’m going to post the entire conversation because I’m kinda pissed off, and I want to get the message across that

REPOSTING IS NOT PROPER TUMBLR ETIQUETTE.

It says so on the tumblr community guidelines (x)

See? This goes under the heading “what tumblr is NOT for”...

Anyway, I’ll post the whole conversation and then I’ll make some points. I won’t post this blog’s url because I don’t want to turn this into a war and “salty” replies aside, they did what I asked them to do (credit my blog on the original post.) I just want to make some points about reposting.

I’m using this convo as an example because every time someone reposts something of mine, I get the same standard replies and excuses for stealing. So I’ll address some of the points made by this person and I’ll refute them because they’re bananas and full of fallacies and if you’re gonna steal from me, at least use some actual logic to defend what you’re doing? Okay…

1) “I honestly didn’t even get them from your blog. I got them from a different spike blog that must have reblogged them from you. I didn’t even notice they were all made by the same person nor did I even think to give credit.” You’re basically admitting that yeah, you stole them. You were just hoping you woudln’t get caught, and you didn’t care about the fact that someone else had made them nor did you think about crediting them.

2) “ I don’t understand why people get upset when people repost things like gifs from a tv show on tumblr. I’ve made gifs that have been “stolen” before and I was like “hey, cool! Someone used my gif!”” LIAR. I’ve yet to meet a gif maker who doesn’t get pissed off when someone reposts their gifs without giving proper credit. But more on why this is a bunch of lies later…

3) “But you should probably watermark your stuff if it’s that big of a deal to you“ Excuse you? So, you’re basically saying that it’s my fault you stole my stuff? And you’re telling me what to do with my own work? You’re basically telling me that if I watermark my stuff, you won’t steal from me, you just will go steal someone else. The wrong behavior here is not my not watermarking my gifs, it’s your stealing from me.

4) “ Make me a gifset like that and I’ll reblog it for sure.” EXCUSE YOU???? MAKE YOU SOMETHING????? So not only does this person steal from me, but then they have the audacity to demand them I make them the exact gif set they wanted which led them to steal gifs from me? Can you see how crazy this is???? Is this opposite day??? Or jackass day??? Also, if you’re a gif maker like you claimed to be in 2) WHY DIDN’T YOU MAKE THE GIFS YOURSELF? OH RIGHT. BECAUSE YOU DON’T MAKE GIFS, YOU STEAL THEM AND REPOST THEM.

5) ““I wonder why that would be” cause I didn’t think it would be a big deal. Like you sound salty as fuck.” This is 100% true. I am salty as fuck. Nothing to argue here.

6) “ You’re making gifs from a TV show. Do you credit the person that filmed the show in all your gifs? No? Oh I guess that’s stealing too!” It’s not stealing, actually, because I’m not posting the entirety of BTVS episodes and claiming I shot them. I’m making two-seconds gifs of specific scenes, moving images with no sound. I don’t claim to own BTVS, but I did create and I do own the fucking gifs that I’ve made, saved on my computer and uploaded to tumblr. Again, check the community guidelines.

7) “ You’re not adding any original artwork to the gifs.” Does this mean that in your twisted rhetoric only people who make pretty artsy gifs have the right to claim them as their own? Fuck no. I’ve still MADE them and they’re still mine. And what kind of original artwork are you adding to them by reposting???

8) “ I could make the exact same one as you but I didn’t because I didn’t want to waste my time when those gifs already exist.” YOU’RE STEALING! YOU’RE FUCKING STEALING! The fact that you’re too lazy to make things on your own does not give you the right to steal it from others! That’s like plagiarizing someone’s paper and saying: “oh I wanted to write it but I didn’t feel like doing it myself because it was too much work and it already existed on the internet so…” Yes, it is TOO MUCH WORK. That’s why gif makers like myself get pissed off when freeloaders like yourself steal our stuff and make it look like their own. AND IF YOU COULD’VE MADE IT YOURSELF, YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE IT! I’m daring you to make the EXACT SAME GIFS like mine.

9) “ You’re on the internet. Shit gets reposted without credit ALL the time.” FALLACY. You’re saying just because everyone does it, it’s right. It’s not. It’s still wrong, it doesn’t matter if one person or every single human being in the whole world does it. It’s still stealing and it’s still wrong.

10) “Like I said, watermark your stuff if it’s that big of a deal to you but you can’t post something online for the world to see and then call it stealing when someone posts it.” Oh sweetie, you’re making this too easy. You said it yourself: I post something online for the world to SEE, not to STEAL IT.

11) “ I didn’t even say it was mine.” You didn’t say it wasn’t yours either, and you didn’t say whose it was. And any way, when you make an “original” post on tumblr and you upload stuff without giving credit, you’re basically implying it’s yours.

12) “ You’re not even getting paid for this stuff so why do you care so much? Cause you won’t get followers?” FALLACY. The fact that I don’t get paid for this stuff doesn’t mean that it doesn’t belong to me, or that I shouldn’t care about it being stolen and reposted. And it seems to me that the one who cares about getting notes and followers is you, considering you’re reposting other people’s work.

13) “ Try asking someone nicely without all the passive aggressiveness next time.” TRY NOT STEALING OTHER PEOPLE’S GIFS NEXT TIME, AND YOU WON’T GET THE PASSIVE AGGRESSIVENESS!

14) “I wanted to make a post about one of my favourite characters without taking the whole damn day to do it” You’re basically acknowledging that you know the kind of work that goes behind making gifs, and you’re saying that you don’t care how much time and effort someone else put into make them. If you want to make something and you are too lazy to make it yourself, don’t steal!

15) “ Yeah it would have taken me 5 minutes to download the software, download the episodes, find the parts I wanted, take them into photoshop, export them and upload them” You don’t have the software? So you’re not a gif maker then!

(this is my gif, btw, don’t steal it!)

16) “ You shouldn’t take the internet so seriously. You’ll get grey hair before you turn 18″ Oh, sweet child, I’m 32 and I already have grey hair. Someone stealing from me does not make me age, it just pisses me the fuck off.